Blogtoberfest Day 17 - Trish Milburn aka Tricia Mills

Today's guest at the Halloween and Homecoming Blogtoberfest (ha, you thought I was going to say "Blogtoberguest" again, didn't you? I'm such a rebel.) is Trish Milburn, who writes YA fiction as Tricia Mills.
In addition to writing two different series, this year Tricia also launched the fabulous Healthy Writer blog, which offers great tips for authors or anyone else who spends a lot of time on his or her butt. I was particularly intrigued by the post on Energy Zappers, and particularly the part about multitasking. For instance, right now I'm trying to write this blog post, check e-mail, and "watch" a baseball game on GameCast, and I can attest that I feel zapped. (But I'd feel great if the Dodgers had pulled off that comeback. Just sayin'.)
Trish/Tricia had her YA debut this past April with Heartbreak River:
Alexandra Landon once loved running the Grayton River through the Colorado canyons near her home and couldn’t imagine doing anything else with her life but continuing the family’s river rafting business. But that was before her father died in a rafting accident and she developed a full-fledged fear of drowning. It’s been nearly a year since her father’s death, and the arrival of another summer means Alex has to face the river, the question of whether she can ever recapture her love of rafting, and the return of co-worker and former boyfriend Sean Kenley. One way or the other, this summer is going to change Alex’s life forever.
The Past and Present Collide
By Trish Milburn
Earlier this month, I attended my first high school reunion -- the 20th. No matter how many times I see that number, it doesn't seem possible that it's been 20 years since I marched into my high school gym to the tune of "Pomp and Circumstance." A lot has happened since then. I got a college degree, I worked for many years full time in the journalism field, I got married, I moved to a different state, I traveled to or through 41 states, and I've managed to get three of my books published so far. Despite all the accomplishments, part of my less confident younger self emerged in the days leading up to the reunion. I was looking forward to it, to seeing friends I hadn't seen in awhile, but I wondered how people would react to each other. Would they pick up where they left off? Would they naturally gravitate toward who they'd been friends with in high school? Would the people who were at odds then still be that way?

The reunion was actually three days of activities. On Friday night, we were supposed to tailgate at the high school homecoming football game. But since the game was canceled because the other team had to forfeit, we ended up having a cookout and eating in our old high school cafeteria. I don't think I'd been in that room since the night I graduated. Some people were easily recognizable as they walked in; others not so much. I kept having to ask my friend Kim who people were. We took a tour of the school. Some things looked the same; even one of the teachers is still there. But there was a new annex, which included a very nice computer lab with big Mac computers. Way better than the Commodore 64 computers we had back in the day. :) There was also a new arena where the basketball games are played, though we did walk through the old gym. Still smelled the same as it did 20 years ago. LOL! And it was funny to see the kids of classmates playing with each other just like their parents did years ago.
The next night was the official dinner at the country club. At one point, we all introduced ourselves, told what we did for a living, if we were married, how many kids, etc. It was interesting to hear what people ended up doing -- teachers, chemical plant workers, lots of nurses, a prison guard, a state trooper, and a variety of other occupations. Only three of us didn't have any kids. The rest had anywhere from one to four. We sat around until midnight, catching up and recounting stories from those days of big hair, ‘80s music playing on the iPod speakers.
Sunday morning, one of our classmates who is now a minister preached a service, but I headed home instead of driving back into town for it since I was staying in the next county. I heard it was a nice service though.
Even though the reunion is behind me now, I still can't believe it's been 20 years. I hope the next 20 years don't fly by quite so quickly.
So, have you ever been to a high school reunion? What was it like? Were people the same? Different?
To enter to win a signed copy of Heartbreak River, leave a comment below. And remember, each comment automatically enters you in the drawing for the grand prize package: all 25 books!
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Thanks to Trish for going to her high school reunion, so I didn't have to!
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Sara at 10/22/2009 1:15 PM
The book looks great and I love that cover. Simple & sweet.
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Karen at 10/22/2009 2:30 PM
Karen, thanks for the compliment on the book and cover. I've been very fortunate with my covers so far.
Jeri, thanks for having me here today. You rock, girlfriend.
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Trish Milburn at 10/22/2009 6:00 PM
I have had my eye on Heartbreak River and I think that it sounds really good.
I did not attend my high school reunion when we had a couple of years ago...it would have 20 years for me too. For some reason it just did not work out and I missed it. It would be very interesting to see how everyone was and how they have changed. I know that I have changed so much.
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Lori T at 10/23/2009 12:46 AM
Luckily, I had some friends who did go so I got to hear how everyone was doing. It sounded like they all had a really good time. So maybe I'll actually try to go to the next one.
But I'm not holding my breath. *grin*
Thanks!
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Brittany at 10/26/2009 1:46 PM
Ive never been to a HS reunion myself either, But then Ive never been invited.. 2008 would have been my 20th (holy cow who'd have thought that?) Guess its just not meant to be.. Thanks for sharing Trish
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Linda Henderson at 10/29/2009 11:54 PM
Thanks to everyone who stopped by and shared their high school reunion experiences!
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Jeri at 10/30/2009 8:50 AM