Blogtoberfest Day 4 - Sarah Beth Durst

Then I went to hear her read from her debut novel, Into the Wild. I was a) blown away and b) sad that it wasn't coming out for seven months.
That night, I went to a party thrown by an entity whose parties were supposed to be legendary. I expected music, games, wild abandon.
No music. No games. No abandon, wild or domesticated. Basically, the party consisted of people sitting around quietly drinking or standing around a large table looking at very old cover flats. (???)
L.A.M.E.
But not for me, because Sarah was there, and we chatted for hours about all sorts of writing and life stuff (but not about cover flats, because the party had that, uh, covered). To this day, she is still one of my favorite people to hang out with, anywhere, any time.
Her new novel, Ice, comes out today! So give her a big, not-so-chilly welcome to Blogtoberfest.
EDITED TO ADD: When you have a minute, go read Sarah's blog post on how this book came to be. I am in awe.
Jeri gave me the choice about writing about Halloween, homecoming, or home.
Halloween was way too traumatic a topic for me to touch. (Seriously, one of the best things about being a grown-up—next to not having to ask permission to eat pizza for breakfast—is not having to dress up for Halloween. That holiday used to stress me out months in advance. Inevitably, I'd choke and end up gluing construction paper on a giant cardboard box and call it a day. But I digress.)
Homecoming was out for me too because my high school was too small to have a traditional Homecoming with football games and Homecoming queens and so forth. (This isn't a complaint. I loved my school. I was a shy kid, and if I’d gone to a large school, I probably would have squeezed myself into a locker and hid there the entire time.) But the upshot is that I know nothing about Homecomings beyond TV and movie cliches.
So... home.
Probably as much a loaded word as "love." Or "disco."
My new novel ICE is about home. It's about the time when you leave the place you've always thought of as home and you find a new home. (It's also about polar bears and true love and an impossible quest across the Arctic.)

But I think that home is really the place that shapes who you are and how you see yourself. It's the place that, for good or bad, defines you.
This includes your role (daughter, mother, sister, son, brother), your tastes (the blue bedspread you love and the pink flower wallpaper you hate), and your passions (the stacks of books and the drawers full of poems and stories).
At its best, home is the place that fits the shape that you are, all your edges and bumps and quirks.
I feel really lucky to have a home like that. My home has my million mementoes (I am a total packrat—seriously, I still have dried roses from my high school prom corsage, plus ticket stubs from every play I've ever seen) and my thousand books (I've never counted, but I have a LOT). But more importantly, it has my family, who not only tolerates but loves my silliness, who cheers me on no matter what, and who buys me fudge for no particular reason.
Really, I think that’s what home is or should be: a place with your memories, with your passions, and with people who love you. And also with fudge. Raspberry chocolate fudge...
Author photo by Adam Durst
To enter to win Ice, leave a comment below. For complete rules, read the introductory post.
Deadline for entry: Tuesday, October 13, 11:59pm Eastern. THIS CONTEST IS NOW CLOSED TO ENTRIES. THANKS!!
Other open Blogtoberfest giveaways:
Rosemary Clement-Moore and The Splendor Falls
Shannon Reinbold-Gee and 13 to Life
Saundra Mitchell and Shadowed Summer
Thanks again to Sarah for always making parties better!
Labels: Blogtoberfest, Contests, guests


36 Comments:
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Hedy at 10/06/2009 8:15 AM
Home is a lot of things, and a lot of bonds. Home is where I've lived and also in the familiar hugs of my relatives and very close friends. It's funny how my family and I can take a plane out to New Zealand or the Philippines and find ourselves trying to recreate our routines and sense of home overseas! Family to me is everything, and it's truly home.
Thank you very much for this intriguing topic, Jeri! Now I have to go hug my little sister...
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Sharmaine at 10/06/2009 10:13 AM
And I'm so excited for ICE. Polar Bears are one of my biggest obsessions, and I just heard phenomenal things about it. Count me in!
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Unknown at 10/06/2009 10:43 AM
Great guest post!
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Poppy at 10/06/2009 12:27 PM
I agree with Sarah on her description of home, very well put.
When my momma was alive it was where ever she was, she was always standing there, open arms and waiting for me when I came home from the military, my new home in Texas. I miss that more than anyone can imagine, because a momma always loves you and if life gives you more than you can handle...God Bless them Momma's always make it better. :)
So I think home changes for us as we grow older, people aren't there so that home is gone from the physical world but it is the one that shapes us for the rest of our lives you know.Then the new homes we make shape our children and so forth.
As to the subject of polar bears, adore them and wouldn't it be the coolest just to spend the day with one and have it wrap those strong arms around us (in comfort not to eat us or anything :))at the end of the day while you gazed at the aurua bori alas lights! (sorry if I mispelled that).
Best Wishes and Big Congrats Sarah!
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Ken at 10/06/2009 2:27 PM
I'm a packrat, too, and I agree, one's mementos of the past can be strongly tied to memories! Which is something half my family doesn't understand -- it sometimes seems to me that they love nothing better than throwing things away.
And I get strongly attached to places, too. It's an amazing experience to wander around somewhere I used to live and see everything -- so different, so much the same. So many memories.
Cara
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Cara King at 10/06/2009 2:57 PM
Ice sounds like a terrific read, although I'm a little scared to read it with the Minnesota winter coming on. Brr!
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Kimberly B. at 10/06/2009 3:23 PM
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Anonymous at 10/06/2009 9:10 PM
Happy belated book birthday Sarah! Ice sounds really interesting!
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meredith goodall at 10/08/2009 4:20 PM
Can't wait to read it.
PS Also grew up in RI and know all about the polar bears from Roger Williams Zoo :-)
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Karen at 10/08/2009 9:23 PM
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Ice sounds phenomenal! I really enjoyed the interview, and think Sarah has such a gift with words, and eliciting feeling. And I am an animal lover, too. Polar Bears are magnificent, (and how tragic and unfair their suffering due to global warming ...)
Anyway ...
Dorothy was right LOL there is no place like home, it's something you carry with you and try to recreate, to re-experience, and to keep safe within your heart.
Please enter me to win this and thanks so much for the chance to enjoy Sarah's book.
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WriterWannaB_NY at 10/10/2009 1:39 AM
Speaking of cover flats, the cover of Ice is gorgeous! And raspberry fudge sounds like the kind of detail that would make any home one you'd want to go back to. :)
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alanajoli at 10/10/2009 5:50 PM
Thanks for a wonderful post!!
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claritysheen at 10/13/2009 11:53 AM
Thanks to everyone who commented!
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Jeri at 10/14/2009 8:12 AM